I was less Come quickly, if they massaged my perineum?

Hello Beatrice,
I have just read the question by Helge. Unfortunately, I know his problem himself too well. Now my question.
Can the partner help relax the abdominal muscles, by, for example, when oral foreplay massaging the perineum between the scrotum and anus, even in the act, if that is technically possible, or is it still exciting for the man and he comes faster?
P.S. I would love it if you should publish it, use a different name.
Best regards,
Thomas (35)
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Dear Thomas,
first time to your request: "I would love it if you should publish it, use another name" - it's clear that I'm almost always if the contents of the request is not entirely harmless. I like to change yours.
As to your question: "Can the partner help relax the abdominal muscles, by, for example, when oral foreplay massaging the perineum between the scrotum and anus, even in the act, if that is technically possible, or is it still exciting for the man and he is even faster? "
I do not believe that the partner can help by such a massage in the abdominal muscle relaxation. Moreover, it is in coming or not coming so rather than the pelvic floor muscles around the abdomen. And to my knowledge, the pelvic floor muscles may also not be placed in this type of relaxation, especially since it's a pretty big muscles. I actually think rather suspect as well as you think it would be even more exciting for most men and he would be even faster.
Incidentally, relax in the PRELUDE to this area, usually does not help as much (unless the men are most often already during foreplay or right) after the invasion, because the pelvic floor muscles may tighten even within a tenth of a second. If these muscles even during foreplay "ver-spans, there are usually not even a sufficient stiffness, because the tension impedes the flow of blood.
Say: pelvic floor muscle relaxation during foreplay is good for erectile dysfunction, pelvic floor muscle relaxation during intercourse is good for premature ejaculation. Unravel But usually the male had the relaxation itself, the partner can be at most a small part to some by the husband helps with mental relaxation.
Got it?
Love Greetings
Beatrice Poschenrieder
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